"Severely criticised by their political opponents for neglecting their official duties, it was said that they had no thought but to live out their days in rural retirement."
Saturday, May 31, 2025
Happiness is a cauldron of fat beef
Wednesday, May 28, 2025
Sunday, May 25, 2025
Wednesday, May 14, 2025
Happiness is Hodge, Samuel Johnson's cat
Sunday, May 11, 2025
The comedy of maternal love is that its seismic intensity is expressed, most of the time, in totally mundane drudgery
Elizabeth Bruenig for The Atlantic, here:
... My mother used to pick me up from day care in paisley dresses or
broomstick skirts with slouchy boots, hair hot-rolled and blown out,
with the lived-in scent of faded perfume: full glam for an eight-hour
workday with a 45-minute commute on either end and then a second shift
at home, cooking any number of demanding meals—fried chicken, smothered
pork chops, breakfast for dinner with biscuits and gravy—and then
helping me and my brother with our homework and loading up the
dishwasher, all before she took her makeup off. I used to sit beside her
and talk with her while she took her evening bath, watching while she
rinsed her mascara off and finally breathed. ...
Tuesday, May 6, 2025
Friday, May 2, 2025
Decades worth of research concludes that happiness is the good mood you get from social interaction
Which is fine if you're an extrovert.
But in former times happiness at its root was simply thought of as good fortune, or as escaping misfortune and accidents, which seems to me a more inclusive definition.
25% of a given population, after all, is composed of introverts, who feel drained by social interaction, not enriched. But they are just as happy to have escaped being hit by a car as any one else.
The field of psychology still seems biased toward the extroverts.